Getting Kinky: A Vanilla's Guide to BDSM Sex Furniture and Play

Getting kinky in the bedroom can be a titillating experience. In one survey, 85% of participants said they wanted to explore their favorite kinks with their partner.

Kinks come in all shapes and sizes and can be a great way to express passion with another consenting adult. BDSM is a common kink many people try out for first.

You may wonder where to begin if you're new to getting kinky. Do you proceed with caution testing the waters, or do you go all in and invest in BDSM sex furniture?

This blog covers everything from the sex furniture you can buy to safety tips for BDSM beginners, so keep reading to learn more.

What Is BDSM?

BDSM is a type of sex play that many people enjoy, and it stands for "bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism." While many may think BDSM is only about sex, they'd be wrong. Many common themes are psychological, and some "scenes" don't include touching or sex. 

Types of BDSM Sex Furniture

If you've read the book or watched the movie "Fifty Shades of Gray,' you'll know all about BDSM sex furniture. After all, we all saw Gray's "Red Room." If you want to get into BDSM, here are a few beginner pieces of sex furniture you can consider.

BDSM Chairs

Bondage chairs might cost a little more than most sex furniture items, but they are a great way of restraining someone. Most allow you to tie up your slave by their wrists and ankles, playing on the Bondage/Discipline theme.

BDSM Crosses/Stockades

If you're building yourself a sex dungeon, then a BDSM cross is an essential piece of bondage furniture. These crosses are in an X shape and are another excellent tool for restraining someone. You can have them facing you or with their back to you for a good flogging.

Medieval Wood Stockade

If you want something really immersive, get yourself a medieval wooden stockade to bind your slave. This piece of BDSM furniture typically comes with chains and hangs from the ceiling.

Safety Tips for BDSM Beginners

Now that you know more about your options for BDSM sex furniture, let's look at some tips to keep you safe during your play. Here are our top five:

1. Only proceed if all parties are consenting
2. Decide on a safe word to stop play at any time during the session
3. Only partake with someone you trust
4. Discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner
5. Start slow and work your way up to more adventurous play

Become a BDSM Master

Getting creative in the bedroom is a great way to spice things up if they've become too predictable. Learning about enjoying each other's kinks is essential, and investing in safe BDSM sex furniture can enhance your experience. Fill your dungeon with crosses, stockades, sex chairs, and more to fulfill your sexual desires.

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